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how to be a friend

Posted: Wed Apr 01, 2026 2:59 pm
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Most people spend their whole lives looking for kindred spirits. There may be billions of people in the world, but it’s not that easy to find someone who
15 Key Points on How To Be A Good Friend. Most people spend their whole lives looking for kindred spirits.

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There may be billions of people in the world, but it’s not that easy to find someone who will take the time to cheer you up when you’re lonely, someone to share secrets and brunches with, or someone who will be there for you when no one else will. So when you come across someone you consider a friend for keeps, treasure him/her and recognize how rare it is to find a person who makes you feel good whenever you’re with them, who supports you no matter what, and will share all their important life moments with you. In order to keep them in your life, you have to be a good friend to them — just as they are to you. Table of Contents. 1. Be available. Good friends show up when it matters the most. When your friend has had a terrible day, be there for them. If they have a competition in school and their parents can’t make it, be there to root for them. When they need a shoulder to cry on, be the first to offer yours. However, a good friend is not only around when the chips are down. You also have to be there when your friend has something to celebrate. It’s all about sharing these important moments with them to show that they can count on you. Even if you can’t physically be present when they need you, a quick chat or phone call can go a long way in comforting them with your presence. 2. Be kind. Friends don’t shoot each other down, so you have to watch your words and actions around them. Be generous with compliments and courteous about criticism. It may be normal for close friends to kid around and tease each other sometimes, but always be sensitive and endeavor to be kind because words can cut deep and leave a lasting mark on someone’s heart. A good rule of thumb is to never say or do something that you don’t want said or done to you. 3. Be honest and share your feelings. Friendships die a painful death when friends lie to one another, even if it’s just that little white lie to keep hurt feelings at bay. If you have something to say, speak your mind. After all, why would you want to be friends with someone you can’t be completely honest with? Did you feel bad when they asked someone else and not you to be gym partners? Were you hurt that they did not save you a seat at lunch? Are you worried that you don’t spend as much time together anymore? Tell them. Communicate — it’s the best way to approach and even prevent conflict in your friendships. 4. Consider their feelings. As you learn how to be more transparent with your friends about your feelings, you must also be considerate of theirs. For example, think of how they would feel if you decide to blow them off to spend time with someone else. Now, this doesn’t mean you are compelled to exclusively spend time with your friend — it just means you have to understand if they might feel hurt about it. It shouldn’t be too difficult to take the time to explain these things to your friend. If they are really worth keeping, they would understand it, too. 5. Be happy for them. Jealousy fractures friendships, so make sure you don’t turn healthy competition (whether in school or otherwise) get in the way of a good friendship. Even if it’s at your expense, be happy when they score a leading role in the school play, or when they get picked for an award you were also hoping to get. Think of their wins as yours too — it’s the best way to preserve worthy friendships especially when competition cannot be avoided. 6. Keep their secrets and entrust them with yours. Trust is the foundation of all good friendships. When your friend entrusts you with a secret, protect it and never tell another soul. After all, you wouldn’t want them going around telling things you told them in confidence, too, right? Show that you are a trustworthy friend by keeping their secrets safe with you. Trust is also a two-way street. If you want to make your friends feel trusted, you have to feel comfortable sharing secrets with them, too.













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