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How to meet smart guys. Joined: 31 Oct 2013 Gender: Female Posts: 666. I am in a fairly small town, no museums or real culture areas.
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I am not a member of a church and all I have seen at the
How to meet smart guys. Joined: 31 Oct 2013 Gender: Female Posts: 666. I am in a fairly small town, no museums or real culture areas. I am not a member of a church and all I have seen at the grocery store is Hispanic house wives. My mother told me to go to lowes, that it would be crawling with men, but it wasn't. Where can I go to meet men? Not just boys but smart, caring men? I tried going to a bar a few times, not good experiences, drunk people are scary and not smart at all. Not to mention the noise, moving lights and throngs of chaotic, loud, drunk people were a recipe for meltdowns. No, I can't do bars well at all. And once, I find this mythical place with men, how the heck do I get them to talk to me, I have tried a few times and failed miserably. I might say something about something I see them holding, such as a cool movie, get a one line response, then. Then what? How do I get them to talk to me? Joined: 5 Aug 2012 Age: 62 Gender: Male Posts: 1,948 Location: Deep in the heart of Texas. Genius, where you go to meet smart men depends on what your interests are. I would recommend the Internet since it essentially places the world at one's fingertips. If you are interested in meeting men in person for romantic reasons, I can recommend either a decent book store or your local library. But, again, it depends on what your particular interests are. The prettiest girl I ever dated I met in a book store near Rice University in Houston. I was standing in the philosophy section, eyed her, and just for grins, I picked up a copy of Martin Heidegger's Being and Time" and started casually thumbing through it. That caught her attention, and thoroughly impressed her. I bought one of the two copies, and she the other, and we exchanged phone numbers. Though the relationship didn't work out, we did date for a while. What it did do was get her attention, and broke the ice. Joined: 6 May 2008 Gender: Male Posts: 60,939 Location: A place where the men who are both smart and caring? At home with their wives and families, of course! Joined: 31 Oct 2013 Gender: Female Posts: 666. I haven't really seen many men at the library. I saw one once, but didn't get his name or number, I saw one other cute guy but on closer inspection he had a wedding band. Maybe I'll try the books store sometime, though the two times I went in it was deserted (Used books, and they wont order more, they didn't have a copy of the half blood prince or any books on autism so I have no real reason to go.) Joined: 5 Aug 2012 Age: 62 Gender: Male Posts: 1,948 Location: Deep in the heart of Texas. I haven't really seen many men at the library. I saw one once, but didn't get his name or number, I saw one other cute guy but on closer inspection he had a wedding band. Maybe I'll try the books store sometime, though the two times I went in it was deserted (Used books, and they wont order more, they didn't have a copy of the half blood prince or any books on autism so I have no real reason to go.) Living in a strong hunting culture, I can tell you that the first rule of hunting is to go wherever what you wish to catch can be found. The second rule is patience--much patience. The third rule is to act in a manner that will attract, rather than scare off, your quarry. What are your special interests? And do you live in a small town or big city? Joined: 1 Jan 2012 Age: 40 Gender: Male Posts: 3,359. Without wanting to demean my own kind . Men will go where there are women. If a bar is empty or has no women, men won't go there and the ones already there will slowly leave. If a party has no women, men will leave. If a supermarket or mall has no women, guys will just buy whatever they need and get the hell out of there instead of leisurely shopping around. And the list generally goes on and applies to a lot of public spaces and events. So maybe the library will be a good starting point, but you'll have to be the one that hangs out there first and regularly. A man will come along eventually.
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